Men and EDGING by Roshandra

This is a TEASER.   In the coming series of on-line classes one is about INTIMACY and a woman's sexual needs.  With energies rising, when a woman reaches between 36 to 42 there is a natural RISING of our sexual energies, pre-menopausal time and our Uranus opposition in one's natal astrology charts.  What DOES THIS MEAN?     Well, bluntly put, we need a longer sexual moment with our mate partner and a lot of sexual orgasms.   NOW Men, I must be BLUNT here.  Honest to a point and direct.   Most men in America and my female ladies I know in Europe say this too, that you guys last about 15 minutes in sex?   If that is TRUE nod your heads.  Now that presents a major problem at this time of 'we need and would like more.'

ONE WORD...EDGE-ING.    A man needs to learn how to sustain his 'sword' ie erection and not lose it. You need to learn how to stay hard and not release.  This is where your partner or you can do a technique, to get you to practice this.   In the class this is discussed.   If a man is not pleasing his partner or allowing the feminine to really get into her orgasms, yes with an 's', we will be grumpy and often this time of relationship undergoes a major shake up.  Divorce happens and so do other lovers find their way into marriages.  Before it was the males in this age period grabbing a last hurrah with a much younger female. NOT NOW.  Now with the female energies changing, we often attract in much younger men with stamina, fun, in shape bodies and yes, longer rides.  WHY?  It is partly our libido and our KUNALINI rising and hormones and children more grown.  We are just getting started gentlemen and we need a partner that can help us with all this energy we need to release and enjoy the pleasure of our bodies.

Did I share too much?

Stay tuned.  Technique is coming in the 3rd class of this new series for WOMEN.

Roshandra, warmly writing on

Self Sacrifice vs Self Love by Roshandra

LETTING GO:  Self - Sac - ri - fice   noun

The giving up of one's own interests or wishes in order to help others or advance a cause.

Synonyms: self-denial 

self-discipline, abstinence, asceticism, abnegation, self-deprivation, moderation, austerity, temperance, abstention. un-selfishness   

The ABILITY to LOVE yourself as a WOMAN is often confused with the loss of oneself to the marriage, to the children and your community.   We need to keep our relationship vital, alive and loving to ourselves to.  WHY?  So we may be able to GIVE more to those we love and tend to and for our own balance.  When we lose that, we lose the sense of ourselves.  We flourish if loved, given to so it keeps us alive, feeling cared for and noted.   It is a cycle of love that maintains us and we absolutely need this from our partner and other women.  Our children when they are small love on us all the time usually, but as they grow and grow up and leave the nest we cannot expect that from them.   So SELF NOURISHMENT is a key learning tool we all must do for ourselves at times.  

The ABILITY to LOVE Yourself as a WOMAN is often confused with a loss of the Sense of SELF  Self Sacrifice and giving to your family, children, and life partner is often part of losing ourselves to others and the role we are serving.  SELF-LESSNESS is also a virtue by those wishing to be of Service to others, to the World and letting go of the ego 'id'.  Healthy women, must come to terms with this.  Often in divorce is when we face trying to FIND OURSELVES again and reclaiming who we are or were.  Also, when our children leave the home we face finding our sense of who we are when the nest is empty.

If we learn to nurture ourselves more, we begin to establish this difference of Self Sacrifice and create the Healthy ego with the Self NOURISHED Woman, we become better balanced.  We need time by ourselves to cultivate this and quiet.

Tools will be taught on this process to help women be healthier.

Women, the Feminine changes of the state of being a woman by Roshandra

Art Pierro di Cosimo - Simonetta Vespucci, detail

Why are so many women right now in OVERWHELM?  In confusion?  We are feeling it is all spinning out of control around us right now and seemingly making our lives more complicated in a pressure of change?

Women all sense this change we are undergoing on the entire planet as the feminine awakens herself within our own bodies, on our planet and with all the women of the world.   What is happening?

My work is counseling in transpersonal guidance and also coaching clients.  Much is with executive women in their businesses and also day to day mothers that are struggling with the changes of how to handle all the inside transformation going on in the collective feminine.  

BREATHE, first and realize it is not 'you alone'

Every woman is experiencing the pressures of these changes from within our own bodies, our relationships around us, this feeling of having to go faster and the desire to create new from a soul level or Intuitive Higher Self.   

There will be a series of classes on line that I offer with lessons to aid you personally with techniques that will center, ground, clear you and allow you to focus on what is key in your life now.   This then moves with a weekly topic that engages steps on how to deal with or handle these existing changes and challenges or problems.  This will aid you as a woman to grow and develop a more stable transition and give you insights into the changes happening to all women.

Sound helpful?

Let's begin with the FIRST CLASS.  It's ALL ABOUT YOU.   Women self sacrifice, we put our needs last behind our relationship and our children and we juggle it all.   We get left behind in the mix.   To begin we must focus on ourselves first.  Breathe, begin to feel your body, toes, heart and mind quiets down after an initial racing with the to do list.  Let it all be.   

Technique one is all about YOU.

Classes and Lessons: For Women Only - Where to begin?  With 'you' of course.

 Class I "Finding yourself, the inner you of your soul and spirit SELF.  How do we connect to this?
The you that is really your divine link to all that is and to GOD as Source LIGHT.  It may be your Inner Goddess, your CHRIST self or what is termed the GODHEAD Source.   It is all up to your beliefs. But we can easily find our Inner CHURCH and this energy we seek of Peace, Love and Centering within ourselves.   The Technique is taught.    

Class II "Relationship" Is it working?  Are you both growing in this?  Is it stale day old bread?   All relationships are impacted with this change we as women are right now going through. Do you feel supported?  Do you feel HEARD?  Do you feel understood?   Lessons on this are given.

Class III "Intimacy"  Is your sexual exchange with your partner what you hoped for or need now?  How to change this and begin the shift men need to consider for lovemaking.

THERE IS more...

Class IV "Healthy foods and detoxing"

Class V  "Communication skills and how to word things to be heard."

Class VI  "Coming from the Heart of the Matter."  Heart, Soul, Spirit is defined and expressed.

Class VII "Creative enterprising or our New ways to Work, Create and Manifest ."

Class VIII "Lifestyle changes and what this means.   What is important and healthy vs what can go."

Class VIX  "Sex vs Lovemaking.  Is your partner satisfying you?  Age 40 is when we activate Kundalini and our sexual libido changes.  Our partner needs to learn new skills that supports this."

Class X  "Body health, yoga, exercise, detox and meditation.  This is all part of the basic needs.  No short cuts or junk food or yo-yo living.  Healthy immune system and patterns about taking in love and taking care of ourselves."

Class XI "Circle of friends and releasing toxic relationships in all forms and why."

CLASS sign ups, please email me Roshandra at Airriel@gmail.com
Tuition is $22 for each class on line and the lessons that accompany the teaching.

Please sign up your email address and you will receive the class and feedback exchange with Facebook.   I do a bi-monthly moon meditation private group class too that enhances the intuitive skills and quiets the mind.   You may reach this on this LINK:

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Namaste'

The BLUE PRINT of WOMEN is changing and we are coming into a New time of AWAKENING.

Blessings Roshandra * REIKI Master

 Arch ANGEL Raphael

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For CLASS sign up: 

For Class SIGN ups - First two classes are combined Link #4 on Menu
each class is $22 per-paid via Pay Pal link
After the first three class the additional classes will be on going to aid women for the changes we are feeling and our LIFESTYLE new way of living as women as spirit in a body form.  We are the ones making it all CHANGE and THROUGH our own Awakening we solve this in this NEW WAY of modeling our way of BEING that creates this new WORLD.  One of Beauty, of LOVE and of Harmony flow with our Inner Divine Nature of SELF and our INTUITION guiding us on the steps.

Change can be a beautiful thing.  The power of the Divine Feminine is what we are Experiencing and we as Women are moving forward with this through our own lives.
Roshandra, warmly sharing

  

Please email me here at Airriel@gmail.com  for questions or sign up for the CLASS LESSONS

NAMASTE'